What It Is: Divorce Coaching supports you during the overwhelming transition of separation and divorce. You don’t need to go it alone. This specialist one on one support will ensure you understand all the legal processes, help you make decisions and communicate effectively with your ex-partner, save you costly mistakes and help you think clearly, stay focused and bounce back.
Our Divorce Coach: Highly experienced in all areas of divorce, our Divorce Coach Stacey:
- is a CDC qualified divorce coach:
- practised as a Family Lawyer;
- is an accredited Mediator
- is an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner;
- has owned and operated Small Business and understand the commercial world;
- has personally navigated two Divorces of her own; one with children and one without.
Benefits to You: Stacey is passionate about helping her clients find a better way to divorce. With Divorce Coaching, Stacey can give you the knowledge, strategies and techniques to protect you and your children emotionally and make good decisions legally and financially. Stacey will assist you to minimise the pain of divorce and the financial cost.
Divorce Coaching with Stacey improves the probability of a favourable divorce outcome for you emotionally and financially. Stacey can HELP YOU:
- Develop coping strategies
- Understand the options for going through the divorce process
- Understand the legal processes and help you prepare for mediation or court
- Understand what your kids need and how they can build resilience
- Protect your finances
- Avoid the pitfalls of poor decision making
- Avoid the biggest mistakes people make in divorce
- Save money and time
- Gain clarity, confidence and courage for the divorce journey
Specific Areas of Help: Every divorce journey is unique. Stacey will take the time to understand your personal situation and what you need and want. It is likely that you will want to be supported in one if not all of the following areas.
HANDHOLDING – EMOTIONAL SUPPORT AND GUIDANCE – EASE THE PAIN
Stacey works with clients at all stages of their divorce. She can provide you with an objective and unbiased support as you navigate the minefield of a relationship breakdown. Whatever it is Stacey listens to your individual circumstances and provides guidance and strategies to ease your pain and make good decisions.
TAKE CONTROL – COPING STRATEGIES
Break-ups and divorce are an emotional rollercoaster. Coaching will provide you with techniques to help you cope with the overwhelm and to build personal strength.
Break-ups and divorce affect us financially. One of the biggest fears when going through a divorce is that of financial uncertainty. Stacey can help you devise a plan and take action to protect your finances. She will help you avoid the most common financial mistakes that people make during divorce.
With Stacey’s background as a family lawyer she can clearly explain the legal processes in divorce including the kids, parenting plans, spousal maintenance, property and divorce. With the right advice, you can save money and heartache by avoiding services that do not require legal consultation. Stacey can assess documentation, provide mediation and when the time comes for legal assistance assist you in engaging experienced and trustworthy people.
Stacey can also help you understand what options are available for going through the divorce process.
GET ORGANISED – DOCUMENTATION
You may well be coping emotionally, but find yourself lost in administration and paperwork. Stacey will help you get organised with all of the documentation needed for divorce. She will help you prepare a brief for your lawyers (if need be) so that you can provide clear instructions and save costs.
KIDS – PARENTAL SUPPORT – PARENTING PLANS
We all want to protect our children from the impacts of relationship breakdown and separation. When it comes to your role as a parent, Stacey can assist with the appropriate support so that your children remain a priority and you are armed with the tools to assist your children build resistance. Stacey can help you with child support, family assistance, parenting plans and mediation.
Some relationship break-ups are high conflict. Stacey can help you develop your own voice, navigate the difficult conversations and situations in which conflict arises and understand conflict patterns. She can explore with you different ways to effectively communicate with your ex-partner.
Communication with your ex-partner after a break-up will greatly impact the outcome of your divorce. Stacey can coach you in effective communication methods and assist with preparation of written communications.
PRE-MEDIATION PREPARATION AND SRATEGIC ADVICE
Stacey can help you define the issues that need attention at mediation. She can also help you develop strategies for negotiation to ensure the best possible outcomes.
THE NEW YOU – MOVING ON
Break-ups herald the beginning of a new phase in your life. Stacey can help you define an action plan that will inspire you to keep moving forward to a positive future. This can include a new career, a new relationship or a new identity.
AROUND THE CLOCK
Stacey offers coaching out of hours so that her clients are fully supported during their break-up and divorce.
Do you need Divorce Coaching: If you answer YES to any of the following then you need Stacey as your Divorce Coach:
- feel alone, isolated and ignorant about the process of divorce
- are getting different and conflicting advice from your friends and family
- you are concerned about the health and welfare of your children
- fear the future and feel powerless to control the outcome, especially when it relates to finances
- afraid you will make all the big mistakes people make in divorce
Top Nine Reasons Clients have sought Divorce Coaching with Stacey:
YOU DON’T KNOW IF YOU NEED A DIVORCE: SHOULD I STAY OR SHOULD I GO?
You have thought about leaving but are unsure whether you are ready for change and what the process of divorce involves. You need help deciding and you want to plan for what lies ahead.
YOUR PARTNER HAS LEFT YOU AND YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO
You are overwhelmed with the news that your partner has left. You need help processing your emotions and you need to know what happens next.
YOU NEED AN EXPERT WHO IS UNBIASED, PRACTICAL AND TRUSTWORTHY
You need someone on your team who is available, who will keep matters confidential and will provide advice when you need it. Friends and family mean well however they can be emotionally involved and unable to be objective.
YOUR EX LOOKED AFTER THE FINANCES AND NOW YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO
YOU AND YOUR EX GET ON QUITE WELL AND YOU WANT TO MEDIATE A PARENTING PLAN AND PROPERTY SETTLEMENT
YOUR KIDS ARE REACTING BADLY TO THE BREAK UP AND YOU WANT TO EASE THEIR PAIN AND HELP THEM BUILD RESILIENCE
YOU ARE GOING TO MEDIATION OR NEGOTIATING A SETTLEMENT AND YOU WANT TO BE READY AND GET THE MOST FAVOURABLE OUTCOME
YOU AND YOUR EX ARE IN HIGH CONFLICT
You need strategies to deal with high conflict or bullying surrounding your break up and ways to communicate to lessen the emotional impact.
YOU THINK YOU NEED A LAWYER
The first thing people do when faced with a break-up is engage a lawyer. This may be premature and expensive. There is a time to get legal advice however first you need to understand the legal processes. You need to be clear about what legal advice you need and how best to engage lawyers so that you keep the costs down.
Divorce Coaching costs: Divorce Coaching with Stacey is tailored to each individual client. It can range from a one-off session ($165 plus GST) to a package that offers continual on hand support either in person, on the phone or via Skype.
For a limited number of clients Stacey offers a premium service for out of hours advice and support.
Divorce coaching pays for itself. Getting prepared and supported can help you make good decisions, get organised and if necessary use your lawyer’s time more wisely.
Act Now: If there is ever a time to invest in yourself, it is now. Stacey offers a complimentary 20-minute consultation so that she can meet and discuss your concerns and what your next steps should be. Schedule a time by calling her or sending an SMS to 0418782239 or email firstname.lastname@example.org